Grieving takes time. We owe it to ourselves and to each
other to feel the pain, to feel the fear, to feel the anxiety and,
ultimately, to live the questions until the answers begin to reveal
themselves to us. The great German poet Rainer Marie Rilke says it
for us: Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try
to love the questions themselves. Do not now seek the answers which
cannot be given you because you would not be able to live them. And
the point is to live everything. (So) live the questions now....